The second part when dealing with a room identity crisis is to pick out what you consider to be your "dream [room]". Check out books from the library, flip through magazines or play around on google to find the one (or two) that feels the most inspiring and, more importantly, the most "you".
Focus on one aspect of your home at a time so you don't become overwhelmed. Pay close attention as to what attracts you to this room the most and identify the top three reasons you just can't get enough of it. Is it the color? Is it the way the accessories are displayed? Is there one piece in the room that makes you melt?
Since all of the photos from the last post (sorry it was a week ago) are from my living room, I'll start with that.
What I like most about these rooms are their natural elements, attention-grabbing artwork and the vibrant mix of textures and patterns. What do you need in your room?